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Kabhi phone kholta hoon to lagta hai sab ameer ho rahe hain.
Foreign trips, luxury cars, instant success.
Aur phir ek thought silently hit karta hai:
“Main itni mehnat kar raha hoon, meri company bhi hai, phir bhi main ameer kyu nahi hoon?”

Ye comparison sabse zyada paisa pe jaake atakta hai.

Pehle comparison limited hota tha.
Office ke log, padosi, relatives.
Ab comparison infinite hai.
Instagram kholte hi 100 log mil jaate hain jo life me “aage” dikh rahe hote hain.

Aur dimaag ek dangerous game khelta hai.
Wo sochta hai:
Shayad sab log kuch na kuch shortcut use kar rahe hain.
Koi satta promote kar raha hai.
Koi fake lifestyle dikha raha hai.
Koi galat business se paisa bana raha hai.

Phir doubt aata hai:
Ya shayad maine late start kiya.
Ya mera kaam utna best hi nahi hai.

Is point pe motivation gir jaata hai.

Main demotivate ho jaata hoon.
Phone aur zyada scroll karta hoon, bas mann bahlane ke liye.
Thodi der ke liye distraction milta hai, par andar regret reh jaata hai.
Kaam kal pe tal deta hoon.

Agla din phir wahi cycle.
Subah fresh energy, full hard work.
Phir random ek reel, ek post, ek story.
Aur comparison wapas.

Social media ne comparison ko accident se routine bana diya hai.
Ab compare karna choice nahi raha.
Ye daily habit ban chuka hai.

Problem ye nahi hai ki log successful hain.
Problem ye hai ki hume sirf unka result dikhaya jaata hai.
Process nahi.
Confusion nahi.
Unke boring din nahi.

Hum apni real life ko compare kar rahe hain
kisi aur ki edited highlights se.

Aur phir khud ko doubt karte hain.

Sach ye hai:
Mehnat ka return instant nahi hota.
Clean kaam slow lagta hai.
Aur jo late lagta hai, wo aksar strong hota hai.

Social media ne humse patience chheen liya hai.
Isliye lagta hai sab aage nikal gaye, sirf hum ruk gaye.

Par reality ye hai:
Zyada tar log bas dikh rahe hote hain.
Grow kam log kar rahe hote hain.

Comparison normal ho gaya hai,
par iska matlab ye nahi ki wo harmless hai.

Har roz thoda sa self-doubt chipak jaata hai.
Bina notice kiye hum apni hi mehnat ko discount karne lagte hain.

Sach ye hai ki zyada tar log jo aage dikh rahe hote hain,
wo bas zyada dikh rahe hote hain.
Unki poori kahaani screen ke bahar hoti hai.

Kabhi-kabhi phone band karke ye accept karna padta hai ki
progress slow hoti hai, silent hoti hai,
aur aksar boring hoti hai.

Main bhi is loop me phas jaata hoon.
Demotivation, scrolling, regret, phir next day hard work.
Ye cycle perfect nahi hai, par real hai.

Aur shayad normal life ka matlab bhi yehi hai.
Confused rehna, phir bhi kaam karte rehna.